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Think Before Suicide

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Though suicide is a self destruction form, indirectly it brings hurts to our loved ones. The Suicide Fish* mainly is the decision of a fish who loses his hope and will to live. Suicide seems to be the best solution to the problems we face in everyday lives. Refusing to acknowledge the truth causes self-denial leading to self rejection. Probably, we misunderstand the concern from our loved ones. They either speak the truth harshly or gently with a certain body language. Misinterpretation is similar to filter. As the air carries their words into our ears, we miss out some words. Losing the connected words causes the head and tail to become the conclusion.

Speaking to younger children is a challenge to the adults. Many adults complain their kids’ misbehaviour and lack of obedience. Throughout my experience, I realized my son tends to capture the last words and acts it out. “Don’t jump!” He will jump.

Conversation between my friend’s mother and helper is another good case of misinterpretation. The helper ever mentioned to her that she (helper) wanted to have four children whereas her friend has six children. She said the same thing to my mother in the next couple of days. When my mother commented my helper wants to have six children, I don’t believe. After I check out their conversations, I explain to my astonished mother.

Whenever I am going to attend workshops, voice recorder is the first thing I often grab on. When I listen to it again, I realised the in-between missing words.

Let’s take this article’s title as an example. “Think before suicide” is the theme of my topic. For example, “before” is the lost word to the recipient’s ears. So it will sound “think suicide”. Obviously, the recipients definitely will be upset and feel devalued resulting in angry person who may or may not commit suicide.

Isn’t it good to really open our ears to hear the speaker?

Think Before Suicide

Think Before Suicide

Rather than, thinking suicide, why not think before suicide?

* School Animation by our friend.


Inspiration On: 12 February 2014
Inspiration Ends On: 6 June 2014 at 5:45am

External links: http://whysuicidebook.com/
http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/happiness-in-world/201004/the-six-reasons-people-attempt-suicide
http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide

Bat

Bat

Bat


Inspiration On: Sunday, 1 December 2013 at 11:52am
Inspiration Ends: Monday, 10 February 2014 at 3:34m

During my devotion time, three words from Hosea 8:5 “My anger burns against them” spoke loud to me and produced the acronym Bat. Bats’ characteristics are hiding in the cave in an upside down manner, black colour and afraid of light. These are like avoiding the light of God be upon them to enjoy dark deeds in the dark. Thanks for reading my poetry and hope this poetry minister and bless you.

Bat

Bat

Bat


Inspiration On: Sunday, 1 December 2013 at 11:52am
Inspiration Ends On: Thursday, 26 December 2013 at 10:33pm

During my devotion time, three words from Hosea 8:5 “My anger burns against them” spoke loud to me and produced the acronym Bat. Bats’ characteristic is hiding in the cave in an upside down manner, black in colour and is afraid of light. Then second poetry came, “Burns angrily Against The committed sins & iniquities”. These are like avoiding the light of God is upon them to enjoy dark deeds in the dark. Finally, the final poetry was produced. Thanks for reading my poetry and hope this poetry minister and bless you.

Angry Baby

Angry Baby

How many times
Do we act like a spoilt kid to
Demand our ways to our Heavenly Father?


Inspiration On: Sunday, 30 June 2013 at 10:14pm
Inspiration Ends On: Saturday, 13 July 2013 at 3:37pm

My toddler refused to wash his hands and feet before sleep. He played the door and closed. I lock the door. He was so angry for a few minutes then laughed.

Sad

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Sad

Sadness feelings wave us away from our self identity
But
Sadness feelings wake us up from our harmful ways


Inspiration On: Monday, 10 June 2013 at 5pm
Inspiration Ends On: Tuesday, 11 June 2013 at 3:40am

“Struggle Anger Disconnection” produced the acronym of Sad. According to Collins English Dictionary – Complete and Unabridged sad means
1. feeling sorrow; unhappy
2. causing, suggestive, or expressive of such feelings a sad story
3. unfortunate; unsatisfactory; shabby; deplorable her clothes were in a sad state
4. ludicrously contemptible; pathetic he’s a sad, boring little wimp
5. (Cookery) (of pastry, cakes, etc.) not having risen fully; heavy
6. (of a colour) lacking brightness; dull or dark
7. Archaic serious; grave

Silence

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Usually,
Silence means agree
But
Silence may mean disagreement.
Silence may mean strife preventative.

When verbal attack
During verbal attack
Silence may means disagreement
Silence may means strife preventative
Silence may means quarrel avoidance
Especially with a difficult people
With those who are trying to
Stir and create quarrel and trouble.


Inspiration On: Wednesday, 13 February 2013 at 1:07am

When a middle-aged woman was trying to make me angry, thank God to keep me calm through His Holy Spirit. Upon informing my parents, they were angry with me. Later on, my dad analysed the situation and laughed because I didn’t fall into that scheming woman’s trap. I hope that my Lord will be glorified. My dad analysed it slowly that there was no reaction from me made that scheming woman felt lost and couldn’t pick a fight. He explained it to my mum in a funny way so that my mum will learn from it. I also never expect that from my Lord. All glory to God.

Anger

When angry, don’t say anything.
Bring it quickly to God.
Pray the Lord’s prayer.
Confide with God.
Converse with him.

Humble yourselves before God.
Seek God for forgiveness.
Pray for His supplication.
Pray for His comfort.
Then our anger subsides
And forgiveness sets into our hearts.
Quarrel is prevented.


The importance to confide in God is to enable us to get over our anger with the help of the Holy Spirit. Asking God for forgiveness for our sins for being selfish and then enable us to forgive those who cause us angry. Angry with people means that they have hurt our self-interest without our realization. Within a few minutes, words of comfort come and the root cause of our anger subsides. This is based on my experience on Wednesday night, which is on 17 August 2011.

This can be observed from

  1. James 4:1, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?”
  2. Proverbs 17:14, “Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.”
  3. Proverbs 17:19, “Whoever loves a quarrelloves sin; whoever builds a high gate invites destruction.”
  4. Proverbs 18:1, “An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.”
  5. Proverbs 20:3, “It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.”
  6. Ephesians 4:30-32, “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”