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CID

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CID

Does the child in us instigate us to be free?
Are our dreams as a child fulfilled?
Do we stay true to our vision in our dreamed profession?
Is the Lord involved in our lived developed dreamed profession?


Inspiration Ends On: Sunday, 16 June 2013 at 8:55am to 12:31pm

“Child in me” thoughts came as I missed my childhood memories and am still enjoy playing children’s toys. Those three words unexpectedly produced the acronym of CID when adding the development. Normally, CID is a police department specialised in Criminal Investigation Department.

Mum

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Mum

Our most unexpected moment is
To be a mother
To nurture our little ones
To adulthood so that they will not err.


Inspiration On: Wednesday, 8 May 2013 at 1:18pm
Inspiration Ends On: Thursday, 9 May 2013 at 12:50am

Suddenly, “Most Unexpected Moment” produced the acronym of MUM. But it rings true to me upon reaching motherhood phase.

HR or HDR

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HR or HDR

Taking care of our babies to adulthood may seems a hassle
Though hassle, people and family also feels rewarding
Even our obedience to our Lord
May seems hard at times, but rewarding in time to come
And prevent us from inner and outer destruction
From the trap laid by the evil one
Who wants us to suffer with him in the abyss of fire.


Inspiration On: Friday, 3 May 2013 at 12:45am to 1:22am

“HR”, “HDR”, “Headache Rewarding” then “Headache But Rewarding” inspired me, while I was caressing my son to sleep. It was like the acronym then the definition came. Though taking care of my child is draining me, sometimes I feel rewarding whenever I was reminded of my family and friends told me that. HR stands for Human Resource department in the corporate world who are in charge of employing people. HDR stands for High Dynamic Range photography refers to the range of brightness levels that exist in a particular scene – from darkest – before complete and featureless black, to lightest – before complete featureless white according to http://www.luminous-landscape.com/tutorials/hdr.shtml.

Abandoned Babies Cry

Abandoned
Babies
Cry
Desperately
Everyday
For
God’s
Hearings and Help.
Internally
Juggling,
Kicking,
Living, and
Moaning in
Needing
Of
Physical and Psychological Protection
Quickly;
Redeeming them,
Soothing them, and
To let them
Understand
Vast
Wonderings that produce
Xylem to
Yield
Zest and Zeal of life.

Jesus loves the little children.
How important is your child’s future?
Do you want them to walk in the way of the Lord or lost forever?


Inspiration On: Sunday, 2 February 2013 at 7:44pm
Inspiration Ends On: Monday, 18 February 2013 at 1:02am

Whenever I think of abandoned babies and see it from the newspaper, I feel that they have feelings. I hope to create the awareness that baby is innocent and in need of love from their parents and other people.

Long-Term & Lifelong

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When something seems too good to be true
Think and Analyse of its long-term consequences
There is bound to long-term sacrifice and pain
Towards the affected people, instigated ones and instigators
Or bound to long-term joy and peace
Or bound to lifelong guilt

Feel!

How fragile is a child’s heart
Just a minor action will affect that child’s lifelong psychologically
Either lifelong beautiful memories or lifelong unrepairable wounds.

Choose!
Choose after you think!
Think as you choose!
Think before you reach to a decision!

How many times adults make excuses to justify their actions?
And let it happen to the innocent born child
Is it the right way to do so?

Think!
Analyze!
Feel!
Choose!
Decide!

Don’t let the history to repeat itself!


Inspiration On: Friday, 3 August 2012 at 11:08pm
Revised On: Sunday, 5 August 2012 at 11:15pm

With phrases rang in my mind upon seeing my sister’s photo, “When something seems too be true”, my heart feels apologetic towards her.

My grandmother and uncles from dad’s side instigated him to let my sister to study and stay i good n Singapore. My mother was reluctant about it and my grandmother (mother’s) spoke that it is the best for a child to stay with own parents. My mother respected my father’s decision and think about my sister’s good education since my uncles have Singapore PR.

Upon giving birth to me, my grandmother wanted my parents to give it to my father’s third elder brother who cannot conceive. My mother was reluctant and dejected. But my third aunt chose my four-years old sister because she was easier to take care rather than me. How hers and my destiny are swapped. Adoption letter was made and my sister receives Singapore PR.

During secondary school, my sister indirectly told mother that she wants to return to hometown, but my mother didn’t get it and replied for her to stay and further her education. My mother was concerned my sister would not be able to adjust to the syllabus at hometown. Misunderstanding occurred. The reason my sister wanted to return to hometown was due to ostracise and bully from third aunt, her cousins. To make it worse, she was forced by grandmother to study all the time. Sense of abandonment and rejection crept into her soul and it lasted until now. Why would my parents leave her alone?

My third aunt was jealous of my mother for being able to conceive. So my sister became the victim of abuse though my parents were paying her school fees. She kept quiet at the abuse, but the helper could not stand it and instructed her to quickly eat more while my aunt was not at the kitchen. Report came to my parents and I heard it during my primary years. Upon reaching my secondary school, my parents began to share about those. My sister confided that those years she continuously watched the white blank wall. I felt pity and hope to accompany her.

To everyone’s surprise, my sister entered Polytechnic then to university and with a bachelor degree. Back then, everyone felt her grades were hopeless. I am graduated very happy that she can succeed.

But the scar of abandonment was there and erupted before her marriage ceremony. My parents and my sister had heated argument about the seating arrangement. Blame for not informing my dad about the seating arrangement fell upon my mother who was forgetful due to the need to handle household. But my sister didn’t think so. She thought that mother purposefully didn’t inform my dad. I have been trying to remove the misunderstanding between them.

Two years later, my sister conceived to a baby girl and had a one month confinement period. She questioned mother for not letting her return to hometown again then explained the words she told before. Mother felt that she need to speak about her feelings and needs directly.

Though now their relationship are good, my mother regretted and is fearful now to pass the adoption letter to my sister after arranged her documents nicely into a file. She is afraid of the erupting fire from my sister. Upon seeing the letter, I have been wondering how to explain to my beloved sister. It is a very painful process for both my mother and sister. And I am praying for God’s intervention and what should I do. I am caught in the middle.

Playing Pointing Finger Game

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To play pointing finger game
Baby turns out to point to things
To express his curiosity and
To express his needs, feelings, and wants.

To play pointing finger game
Helps baby to understand and to get
To know himself and his
Surroundings, environments, objects better and also to
Point the location to go.

To play pointing finger game
Can solve his dilemma to express oneself
And to avoid frustration to
Express so reduces his cries and wailings.

Playing pointing finger game is
The best way to learn more of
His or her own body.


Inspiration On: Monday, 30 January 2012
Revised On: Tuesday, 31 January 2012 at 5am

When my baby was around eight months old, I played a pointing finger game with him. I grasped his hand and use his finger to point himself by singing his name, and then point to myself to identify, “mama” to him. He is so excited and chuckled. Now, my baby is nineteen months often getting near the buttons to touch it. So this reminded me of the consequence of sin mentioned in Numbers 5:30-31; 9:12-14; 18:21-23; 30:14-16; Ezekiel 16:57-59; 23:34-36,48-49; 44:9-13.Afterwards, he often points to the aircon to signal my parents to switch it on, and points to cats and dogs on the streets to know what is its names.

In the Old Testament and New Testament, there are lots of Scriptures mentioning sowing and reaping. So whatever is taught to a child, it will bear fruit in the child because all a child do is to observe and follow what is done before his eyes. This makes me realize the importance of my heart and performance as my child’s good example. And I have been pondering about it and pray to the Lord on high to seek His wisdom in guiding the precious child He blesses me with.

Korean Drama “Oh My Lady” (2010)

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The drama depicts a famous celebrity who suddenly has an illegitimate daughter from one of his past girlfriend. His ex-maid is a divorcee who takes pity on him so she raises his daughter and rebukes him in the way he treats his child. The child doesn’t speak due to psychological problem, though she has a good health.  She feels sorry for the child because she has a daughter who is hurt due to her husband divorced her for a beautiful woman. Through her, the celebrity slowly able to accept his daughter and matures. Gradually, he falls in love with her due to her inner beauty.

This drama points out the mistakes in today’s parenting role. Besides that, it also points how to correct it to heal a child’s heart.

The moral of the story is not to have an intimate relationship before marriage to avoid future problems.


Reviewed On: Monday, 10 January 2011